How has mindfulness practice increased your self-compassion? This was a question posed by Tara Brach today in our dharma talk. Mindfulness has given me objective vision and observational wisdom. I no longer judge people, situations, emotions as good or bad, I just observe. By observing, I realize that anger, sadness, frustration, laziness, happiness, joy, pleasure, pain, and all other emotions and experiences are universal. They are part of the human experience. There is no need to ascribe a label such as "good" or "bad" to our experiences or people. Just observe, investigate, nurture, accept, allow, and perhaps even embrace. It is what it is.
How do we stay mindful? Practice. Just as a muscle becomes stronger through lifting weights, or cloth becomes saturated with color in proportion to the number of times it is dipped in dye, so too it is with our ability to stay mindful. We must train for it is natural to be loving, compassionate, kind, non-judgmental, etc. when we are mindful. Mindfulness keeps us aware of the space between stimulus and response and our ability to choose our response rather than simply react mindlessly. Choosing our response makes us more response-able vs. reactionary. Response-able. .. sounds a lot like responsible doesn't it? Here's to mindfulness practice. :)
How do we stay mindful? Practice. Just as a muscle becomes stronger through lifting weights, or cloth becomes saturated with color in proportion to the number of times it is dipped in dye, so too it is with our ability to stay mindful. We must train for it is natural to be loving, compassionate, kind, non-judgmental, etc. when we are mindful. Mindfulness keeps us aware of the space between stimulus and response and our ability to choose our response rather than simply react mindlessly. Choosing our response makes us more response-able vs. reactionary. Response-able. .. sounds a lot like responsible doesn't it? Here's to mindfulness practice. :)
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