I've probably already blogged about this movie, but last night I watched it with the kids. They loved it, but hated the ending. I tried to explain the beauty of the story, and while I did succeed in opening their eyes they still preferred an ending where Sebastian married Mia and they both lived happily ever after.
La La Land is magical for me because it's ending is life-like rather than fairy-tale. It's a powerful reminder that not all relationships last, but their impact does.
I like it's helpful to think of our life like a movie or play. There are acts and actors/actresses who cross our stage. Some have major roles, some only minor, but each plays an important part. Those that we form relationships with become our greatest teachers. They add to the plot by providing, twists and turns, ups and downs, agonies and ecstasies, and trials and triumphs. I have had several relationships already that have positively impacted my play. My former spouse gave me many fond memories and four beautiful children to boot. I am a better person because of him. He has taught me-- and continues to teach me--patience, forgiveness, love, hope, and compassion. I love him more today than I ever did back then.
My current spouse inspires me in so many ways. He is my #1 fan. He encourages me to pursue my dreams and supports me in every endeavor. His love feels pure. I trust him and honor him. I want his happiness more than I want mine. I do not know how long our relationship will last, but one thing I do know for sure is that its impact will. He has already helped me discover paths I never before dreamed.
There have been plenty other relationships that have left an impact. Ryan, Paul, Derral, Tyler, Cory, Stephen, Dylan, Matt, Wayne, to name just a few, and there will surely be myriads more.
I'm grateful for the people who have always shown up in my life just on time. Everything is always as it should be. I trust in the divine unfolding and I'm excited to see what else lies in my La La Land.
La La Land is magical for me because it's ending is life-like rather than fairy-tale. It's a powerful reminder that not all relationships last, but their impact does.
I like it's helpful to think of our life like a movie or play. There are acts and actors/actresses who cross our stage. Some have major roles, some only minor, but each plays an important part. Those that we form relationships with become our greatest teachers. They add to the plot by providing, twists and turns, ups and downs, agonies and ecstasies, and trials and triumphs. I have had several relationships already that have positively impacted my play. My former spouse gave me many fond memories and four beautiful children to boot. I am a better person because of him. He has taught me-- and continues to teach me--patience, forgiveness, love, hope, and compassion. I love him more today than I ever did back then.
My current spouse inspires me in so many ways. He is my #1 fan. He encourages me to pursue my dreams and supports me in every endeavor. His love feels pure. I trust him and honor him. I want his happiness more than I want mine. I do not know how long our relationship will last, but one thing I do know for sure is that its impact will. He has already helped me discover paths I never before dreamed.
There have been plenty other relationships that have left an impact. Ryan, Paul, Derral, Tyler, Cory, Stephen, Dylan, Matt, Wayne, to name just a few, and there will surely be myriads more.
I'm grateful for the people who have always shown up in my life just on time. Everything is always as it should be. I trust in the divine unfolding and I'm excited to see what else lies in my La La Land.
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